We're in the States for another day or two, chomping at the
bit to get back to Bahia de Los Angeles and our friends there. I
was driving home from a doctor's appointment several days
ago. I noticed many small family groups, mothers and fathers and
children. Many of them were carrying an arrangement of balloons,
filled with helium multi-colored and clustered together and
typically in the hands of the children. At first I thought it
was someone's birthday and the folks were heading for a
local festivity. Then I realized it was graduation from a
variety of academic levels that was the cause for celebration.
As we live in an agricultural area in California many of our
friends and neighbors are steeped in Hispanic traditions and
history. Most of the small bands I was seeing along the streets
were Mexican. It gave me cause to think, about our school system
and the Mexican system and the reward that a child must feel
over primarily being made a fuss over and secondarily, upon
experiencing a graduation. I was carried back to my own junior
high graduation (the last one I experienced) and how my
grandmother placed a great significance on my achievement. She
presented me with a large glass globe, a model of Earth, lighted
from within and positioned atop a rotating axis. I was both
surprised and proud. Her actions made me feel like someone else
truly cared about me. Just me.
In Mexico, at least in rural Baja California the average
academic achievement is to complete the sixth grade. I know
those children who finish that level must be very proud of their
accomplishment and their parents as well. Most of us in the U.S.
strive, if not completing, some level of college. Not as true in
Mexico perhaps as it is in the United States, but completely
understandable in any case.
But the lack of a stronger education has many positive related
issues. A lack of education can help hold a family together;
children are obliged to work locally with the parents rather
than travel thousands of miles to complete an education and then
being obliged to find work at greater than desired distances
from their loved ones. With a lesser education the young are
encouraged to remain closer to home, where they are familiar
with those neighbors they have been raised among.
Living on a simple stretch of beach on the shores of the Sea of
Cortez reminds me that it isn't always the highest academic
level we can achieve, or the most money we can earn. There is a
place, a large place for the many simpler sides if life. The
time to enjoy nature, to be close to a god if we choose one, to
partake in the less complex of life's segments at our own
level and pace. Sometimes education can so wrap you around an
axle with pesky nagging details that we miss more important things.
Red, yellow, green and blue balloons transfer to the recipient
an acceptance, a respect for some seemingly minor or major
accomplishment. They imply a love for others.
While my most memorable balloon was an illuminated globe of
Earth from which I have learned of vast continents, oceans,
rivers and ranges of jagged mountains, no lesson was more
meaningful than learning that another person actually cared
about me. Just me.
I hope that all children, all families share balloons with those
that are accomplishing a small or large feat, that we respect
each other, starting at home, by communicating our appreciation
for each other. Maybe we just start with a few balloons to show
each other how much we all matter.
Seems like that would make a good Father's Day wish. In my
personal world of family I think I'll play several iterations of
Alan Jackson's hit "Remember When" and reflect just a moment more.